One day, about a year ago, I got a call I never expected.
And, in a few seconds, the welcome warmth of an old friend’s voice chilled my heart as his words sank in. Our mutual friend Steven Wright had gone to New York for the weekend, he told me. And he’d caught a buzz. And he’d overdosed.
I shrank back in my seat as I said, throat closing as the words came out, and he’s – he’s not alright? My friend’s tone of voice had already given me the answer.
There was no funeral, which was probably appropriate. Steve wasn’t a religious guy. He believed making the best of a moment was best way to live. He never thought anywhere near far enough ahead to be remotely concerned with an afterlife. In lieu of funereal remembrance, Steven’s parents asked that his friends celebrate his life.
Requiem
One day, about a year ago, I got a call I never expected.
And, in a few seconds, the welcome warmth of an old friend’s voice chilled my heart as his words sank in. Our mutual friend Steven Wright had gone to New York for the weekend, he told me. And he’d caught a buzz. And he’d overdosed.
I shrank back in my seat as I said, throat closing as the words came out, and he’s – he’s not alright? My friend’s tone of voice had already given me the answer.
There was no funeral, which was probably appropriate. Steve wasn’t a religious guy. He believed making the best of a moment was best way to live. He never thought anywhere near far enough ahead to be remotely concerned with an afterlife. In lieu of funereal remembrance, Steven’s parents asked that his friends celebrate his life.
So here I am, Steven. Remembering.